-friendships




And what to do when they end.


It's always a sad day when a friendship ends, but what about one that's hardly begun? At the beginning of the summer I met the love of my life, who consequently introduced me to some of his best friends. His best friend and his fiancé quickly became our "go-to" couple. We went to movies, dinner, shopping, etc. Needless to say, we all developed a quick group bond, that also spread into individual friendships. The fiancé, we'll just call her M, and I bonded considerably in a short amount of time.


This is where it gets tricky.


You see, M & I got along great. (and when I say great, I mean instant bffs) We had a ton of stuff in common, loved all the same shows, fan-girled over the same men from the same movies. It was a match made in "making our SO's life miserable" heaven. We even found a common love of photoshoots!


However, all good things must come to an end.

For whatever reason, M took to the idea that I was sending out "bad vibes" towards her or her SO. Obviously, this is not true for many reasons, the main of which being: I adore them both! I don't waste my time pretending to like people if I don't, call me crazy, but I have better things to do.

Needless to say, this has taken quite a toll on me emotionally, as I hold extreme value in my friends. Not only that, but it's also affecting B & I. (don't worry! We're still just as happy and in love as we were the day we met) But, this trial has definitely resulted in some tearful/emotional conversations, mostly from me, about how I/we feel.


So, for those of you who have lost a new found friend, how did you deal with the drama?

Or better yet, how do you not let it get to you?!